I want to be in a relationship but the truth is it’s not the right time for me. Sometimes the universe gives you what you need, and for me right now, that’s alone time. I need to be on my own for a while for these reasons:
I want to get to a certain place in my life and I’m not there yet. I need to spend all my free time working and making the money required to save and plan for the next stage of my development. There’s really not any room for time spent on dates and guys and lying around lazy. I don’t have that luxury.
I have a hard time focusing on the rest of my life when I’m seeing a new guy. I get excited and preoccupied with all things to do with him. I try not to go there, but it happens every time. It’s clear to me that I have to be single now so that I can focus on making the rest of my life what I want it to be, with no manly distractions.